8 Questions Brides Ask About Setting up a Wedding Registry

...Typically you'll want to select two or three items per guest...

In theory, setting up a registry is simple. You decide on one or several stores, create a registry online or in person, select various items, and get the word out to your guests. In practice, things are a little more complicated -- but only a little!

With that said, here's the real deal on setting up your wedding registry and getting the word out without offending your guests. Remember that retailers can be an enormous help to both you and your guests. At the same time, you can’t take everything they say at face value.

Q: Where should I register?

A: Chances are, if you're getting married in your own town, you already know where "everyone goes" to set up and shop from a registry. If not, and guests are flying in from far away, pick from some bride-tested standbys likely to be present almost anywhere. Macy’s has a great reputation for registries, as does Williams-Sonoma, Bed Bath & Beyond and other retailers.

Before you choose your stores, be sure to stop by a wedding forum and get feedback from brides who have been there, done that. Store policies vary quite dramatically, ranging from the easy-does-it (who’ll give you cash back for returns off the registry, no questions asked) to the extremely restrictive (who’ll only let you exchange for another item *in that department*, requires a receipt for each item, and so on). You'll want to know about these policies and the store's overall reputation for bridal friendliness before you go in, or returns and exchanges could become a big hassle.

Q: I have a wide range of interests. How many stores should I register at?

A: Two to three stores is fairly typical. They don't have to be typical stores, though. If you're a wine drinker, and live in a state where it's legal to ship wine, set up a registry at one of the great online wine merchants.

Q: When should I register?

A: Although close family members may pressure you to start earlier, it's helpful to wait three to six months before the wedding. Not only are the vast majority of gifts bought within a day or so of the shower or ceremony itself, stores turn over merchandise so rapidly that any gifts you select earlier may be discontinued.

Q: What if I already have all the kitchen appliances and throw pillows I need?

A: Consider putting together a honeymoon registry instead, so guests can contribute toward a special meal or snorkeling trip or a night’s lodging during your honeymoon.

Q: When I signed up at Store X, they gave me a bunch of attractive registry cards to enclose with my wedding invitations. Should I do it, or is that tacky?

A: Sorry, but the consensus is almost universal -- it's uncouth to include any mention of gifts in your invitations. You can, however, tuck those cards into shower invitations. Perhaps the best solution is to include a note in your invitations that reads, "Please see our wedding web site at www.xyz.com" and place your registry information there.

Q: How many gifts should I register for? I don't want to look demanding.
A: Typically, you'll want to select two or three items per guest. That gives people room to choose instead of locking them into something they don't enjoy buying, or worse, forcing them to guess what else you might like, giving birth to the “second yogurt maker” type of gift.

If you have many guests, you can avoid creating a 16-page monstrosity for them to print out by breaking up your registry over several stores.

At the end of the day, “more is more.” Many retailers offer discounts on those items you registered for but didn't receive. Many stores also retain your registry for at least 12 months after the wedding. You may find it's best to register for everything that you plan to buy, even if you don't expect to get it as a gift; you can then purchase your selections for 10% or 20% off after the ceremony. Many brides also find friends and family tapping registries for gift buying ideas for birthdays and other holidays!

Q: What price range should I stick with when selecting items?

A: Generally, you should register for things you really feel you want or need, without worrying too much about the price. Some guests enjoy picking up a number of items in the low price range, and sometimes guests will group together to purchase bigger-ticket items.

Q: I've set up my registry just fine, but now I’m addicted to checking it online. How can I stop?

A: Sorry, there's no known antidote for registry-checking addiction, though it's a widespread phenomenon. Counting to ten, taking deep breaths or distracting yourself with double-fudge ice cream might be worth a shot.

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Wedding Reception Games for any Wedding

...ask friends and family members about games they enjoyed at weddings they attended...

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The games played at weddings can be a big part of any great wedding ceremony. Every culture has its own tradition of wedding games, and these games can be a great reflection on the culture, and on the individual couple.

Planning the wedding games is an important, but often overlooked, part of planning the wedding ceremony. It is not hard to see why this would be so.

== There Are So Many Things Involved With Planning The Perfect Wedding ==

There are so many things involved in planning a wedding, from getting the perfect flowers to finding the perfect dress to ordering just the right wedding cake. It can be easy for little things, like planning the wedding games and choosing the best wedding favors, to get lost in the shuffle.

== Coming Up With Great Wedding Games ==

Many people who have never planned a wedding before are unsure about the proper wedding games to use, or where to find information on wedding games.

One great place to get ideas is, of cause, at other weddings. Think back to the weddings you have attended, and the games you have played at those weddings. Think about the games that were fun, and put your own spin on them for the wedding you are planning.

It is also a good idea to ask friends and family members about games they enjoyed at weddings they intended.

Many of the games used at weddings are similar, but there are always some unique and interesting games as well, particularly in weddings held in other religions or cultures.

== The Internet Is An Incredible Source ==

And of course the internet is an incredible resource for researching all kinds of wedding planning tools, including some incredible wedding games.

Be sure to peruse the many web sites and newsgroups devoted to wedding planning. These internet resources are some excellent sources of information on all kinds wedding games.

The beauty of the internet is that it allows you to quickly communicate with other people who have planned or are planning their own weddings, and share tips, tricks and secrets for wedding games and other aspects of putting together the perfect wedding.

About the Author

Shaunta Pleasant is a professional writer and editor on wedding planning topics. Visit my site to learn more about planning the perfect wedding at http://www.best-wedding-plan.com/wedding_games.html

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Wedding Photography Tips for Wedding Guests

Chances are that you will be attending a wedding or two sometime soon. And, chances are, you'll be bringing your camera to the wedding along with a gift or two for the happy couple. Here are some tips from the pros at the New York Institute of Photography, the world's largest photography school, to help you take great pictures of this memorable occasion.
...be respectful of the professional photographer

While most couples hire a professional wedding photographer to photograph the ceremony and reception, there's still plenty of room for you to also capture this occasion on film. Not only will you have a record of the wedding for your own pleasure, but imagine the joy of the happy couple to receive prints of events that the professional photographer did not see or wasn't asked to cover.

For instance, many wedding photographers no longer shoot those "table
shots" of the guests because these photos don't usually get purchased by
the bride and groom. This is the perfect opportunity for you. But shoot
these like a pro: Have some of the people at your table stand up and move
behind those still seated and take a group shot. Avoid showing the entire
table complete with half-eaten food, instead concentrate on the faces of
the guests.

Another photo opportunity exists at your table. Many bridal receptions
now include disposable "single use" cameras at every table. You may need to get the show rolling and coax your table mates to start taking pictures. Remember, the bride and groom can't be at every table to take part in the festivities so candid photos from these cameras can show the guests having fun in a way that professional photographers aren't likely to capture.

A couple of hints on wedding photography etiquette. If you want to take
photos at a church, synagogue, mosque or chapel, take your cues from the
professional photographer hired by the bridal couple. If you see that he or
she is not taking photos at the ceremony, chances are it is because the
clergy told that photographer not to do so. Respect the tradition and don't
take pictures. The same thing holds true for flash photography. Some places
of worship will allow it at the ceremony, others will not. If you see that
the pro is shooting, then take an aisle seat. It's the best place to get
nice close shots of the couple that fill the frame as they leave the
church.

One other suggestion on wedding photography is to be respectful of the
professional photographer. Don't get in that individual's way. You don't
want to ruin the photos that the bride and groom are paying the pro to
take, and the pro can do a better job of capturing many parts of the event
than you can. As we've indicated, there are plenty of different kinds of
shots for you too.

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Photo Tips For You To Offer Your Wedding Guests

We thought it might be a good idea to take the dean's email one step
further. With more and more "wedding cameras" showing up at weddings and
receptions a bride and groom should be able to easily ask friends and
family to take some of these candid shots the article mentions.

Take the time to clear this with the photographer you are going to hire
- and try to bring this up early BEFORE you have hired the photographer and
you are then told that "it wouldn't be such a good idea".

As long as you have an understanding with your photographer and as long
as you make sure your friends and family are given a copy of the New York
Institute of Photography's article to have a better understanding of their
potential role and the necessary photo etiquette that you wish to have
followed
you should have a ball - and - you are likely to get some outstanding shots
that you otherwise would have missed.

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For some more great photography information check out the New York
Institutes' website (www.nyip.com)

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Wedding Photography - Hilton Tampa Bay/N. Redington Beach FL

...Photography can provide a lasting record of your special day...

A Moment In Time


Photography allows you to revisit your wedding day whenever you please.

Unfortunately it’s true that your vivid memories of the day will eventually begin to fade over time. Photography can provide a lasting record of your special day.

Choosing a wedding photographer will be a testing task. It’s a very powerful medium and will have a large influence on your memories of the day. The challenge is to find the professional who is perfect for you.



Choosing A Wedding Photographer

It’s just not worth taking a risk with your photographer. They only have one chance to get it right.

Look through the albums of married friends. Ask them how they chose, if they were happy, how much they paid, etc.

When you do see a professional’s work that inspires you, make contact with that photographer and view their portfolio of wedding images. Study the prints closely. They should be consistently clear, imaginative and emotionally appealing.

Essentially, you need to find a photographer who understands your vision. If you visit a studio you must speak to the person who will be taking the photographs, not anybody else. When you start talking about your wedding you will discover if they’re listening properly by the questions they ask you. Your photographer must be willing to take on your ideas, but you should definitely listen to the suggestions they make, if they are properly accredited and experienced they will know what they’re talking about.

A good photographer will spend a considerable amount of time with you before the wedding. They need to get a sense of you, just as much as you need to get a sense of them.

Although this sounds tremendously obvious, it needs to be said: you must like your photographer. They will be hanging around for the majority of the day, maybe even at intimate times such as when you are getting ready. It is important that you feel comfortable around them.




Bookings And Costs


You will certainly be surprised by how well in advance a good photographer is booked. It is typical for you to have to book about 12-18 months in advance. Just to be safe, you should start looking as soon as the date is finalised.

When it comes to photography, the price is a good mark of experience, skill and artistic flair. It is an industry in which you get what you pay for. If good photographs are important to you, cost cutting is not such a good idea.

These are images that will last beyond a lifetime, hopefully passed on through the family. The time the photographer shares with you is only part of the job, and it is certainly not an inexpensive business. You will be paying for high-quality film, professional cameras, lenses and lighting equipment, and excellent processing. On top of this, the album must be chosen and coordinated. Your photographer will spend a great deal of time on your wedding post-marriage. You should also budget for reprints and enlargements, no doubt family members will be insisting on copies.

Most couples will pay between $2000 and $6000 for their wedding photos. And some will pay even more for truly accomplished photography. It’s important that you’re clear from the beginning as to how they will quote for the job. Some photographers offer set packages, these can be tailored to suit your individual needs. Others will quote for time with prints charged separately. It is standard practice for you to pay for the whole service before the actual wedding. Commonly a booking deposit of 50% of the quoted cost of the package will need to be paid up front. With the remaining amount due before the day.

It is best to see your agreement in writing. You should certainly sign a wedding contract with your photographer. But before doing so, make sure you have all the relevant information such as cancellation fee, payment requirements, individual prints, album and page pricing, etc.



After You Book

Your photographer will contact you prior to your wedding to make a pre-wedding appointment to discuss the fine details - timing, location and any special photographic styles you would like. In general, allow a minimum of one and a half hours of free photographic time (excluding travel) after the service in order to do family groups, bridal party and more intimate shots at one or two locations.

Delegate a well-connected family member from both families to help your photographer with any query they may have in their search to shoot important individuals. This will allow the photographer to focus on what they do best, leaving the delegated family member/s to provide relevant information as it’s needed.

Make sure you rehearse your ceremony and work with the priest to allow professional photographs. You will have to consider the time of day, and amount of natural lighting. Discuss the photography with your makeup artist, as there are techniques to make you look your best in the photographs.

Typically most couples view the proofs once they’ve returned from their honeymoon. At this stage you will begin working with your photographer on the album or portraits. This is a very important process. It’s usual practice for studios to produce a set of proofs or prints that will help you determine which shots you want to include in the finished album.

This is your chance to bring the story of your wedding day to life.

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Styles of Wedding Photography

...There are four different approaches photographer’s use...

We all know that the wedding day will not last forever, and most once valued memories will be forgotten. In fact, the only thing that is left to remember this special day is your photos. Your wedding photographer must be a person that you are comfortable with and that you enjoy. You will not only be investing money into him/her, you will be investing time as well. During your wedding day you and your family will be interacting with this person all day. Therefore, you should not settle on the most economical photographer, however one base on their style and personality.

There for four different approaches that photographer’s use: Traditional, Photojournalism, Illustrative and Creative.

Traditional photography are any formal or informal portraits of the bridal party, family, and friends in close-up and full length, as well as candid photographs of key events at the wedding. Most brides choose this mixed version of photography for their wedding day.

Photojournalism means no posed photographs - all pictures would be taken without any instruction from or awareness of the photographer.

Illustrative photography looks like the photos that you see on billboards, and magazines. This is set up like a commercial photography shoot; the photographer arranges every detail of the image.

Creative or Artist photographer takes pictures from unique angles, lighting, etc. This type of photographer creates his or her artistic impression of your wedding day.

Marjory of all photographers use a mixture of all these styles, focusing on the traditional style; which parents of the bride and groom like J

When meeting with photographers view not only a portfolio of a mixture of weddings, also ask to view a album of a full wedding; and make sure to the photos were from current weddings and that he/she was the photographer. (Larger companies and even some smaller ones may have multiple photographers that shoot for them, or even sales representatives that meet with you.)

While looking at the photographs ask yourself these questions about style:

Are the posed photographs well lit, and pleasantly arranged?

Does the candid photos show emotion, and free of blur?

Does the illustrative photos have a focus point or convey a meaning of romance?

Are these the type of photos what I would what taken at my wedding?

If any of the photos do not please you, ask the photographer why the picture is this way or that. It may come to the point their view is not the same as yours.
It is best to choose a photography that will incorporate with your views, or him or hers view you are pleased with.

While looking at the photographs ask yourself these technical questions:


Is the light good; not to bright or to dark?

Is the lighting flattering to the mood it conveys?

Is the posing flattering?

Ask the photographer this one: Was there is flash used?

(Most all professional photographers use flashes, due to low lighting in churches, or unflattering shadows in an outdoor wedding.)

Again, if any of the photos do not please you, ask the photographer why the picture is this way or that. If you are viewing their portfolio just about very photo should be pleasing, free of distraction, and convey emotion.

Interviewing a photographer is almost always in person. If you will be traveling to another state for your wedding or a photographer is flying in to you, you should view on online gallery that consist of their resent wedding work and a full wedding, as well as talk to them over the phone. Most brides interview three different photographers before deciding on the best one that they enjoy, and like the style of. Budget wise, expect to invest 10% or more of your wedding budget on a professional photographer.

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Current Trends in Wedding Photography

...The photographer is there to capture the true essence of the wedding day...

Wedding photography is an evolving field that requires artistic talent, vision, and highly technical expertise.

In the past wedding photography was almost always limited to stiff posses without much regard for the underlying story, emotion, romance, and behind the scene events of the wedding day.

Although there is still a big segment of the wedding industry that practices traditional photography with its preplanned poses, and recreation of the wedding peak events such as the kiss, the ring exchange, etc., the modern wedding couple demands a more contemporary approach to their wedding day.

Wedding photojournalism has been in vogue for the past decade. The central idea behind it has been the capture of the wedding events without any interference or direction from the wedding photographer. The photographer is there to capture the true essence of the wedding day. As a result of this realistic approach the photographs are a true representation of the wedding day. Hard core wedding journalistic will be totally opposed to posing any wedding related event. If it doesn’t not happen during the wedding it won’t be recorded. This includes family group photos.

Several photographers offer a hybrid approach to wedding photography, usually a combination of traditional and journalistic wedding photography. In this approach the photographer focuses on documenting the wedding day but the coverage also includes a session with the couple for formal posed or semi-posed photographs and also family group photos.

The latest trend in wedding photography is toward a more fashionable approach. Inspired on high-end fashion magazines such as Vogue, Elle, InStyle, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, GQ, American Photo, etc., and wedding magazines the photographer seeks to make the couple’s fantasies real.
In the fashion wedding photography approach the goal is to make the wedding couple look their best. Their romantic interplay is glamorized to its maximum expression. The everyday couple becomes like wedding celebrities. Attention to detail is required to achieve the perfect look. This approach requires a great deal of artistic talent behind the camera and also great computer image editing skill to produce a unique photo. Half the photo is made on the camera with the second half achieved though digital image editing and manipulation.

Which style is best, is for you to decide. In our experience a big segment of the wedding couples want to capture the reality, details and romance of the wedding day but at the same time they have fantasies about their wedding and the way they should look.

When making a decision for a wedding photographer look closely to the photographer’s portfolio and see how it agrees with your philosophy on how your wedding day should be photographed. Regardless of your philosophy please make sure that you select a master of the craft, you and the next generation deserve masterpiece memories of your wedding day.

Juan Carlos Torres is a very respected and awarded wedding photographer in Oregon. He has a Masters Degree in Remote Sensing with a strong background in digital image processing and photography. His wedding photographs are unique and very artistic and have been featured in national and international magazines. For a sample of his works please visit http://www.juancarlosphoto.com and http://www.willamettephoto.com

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Tips For Choosing Great Flower Girl Dresses

Clearwater Beach Florida Wedding

...if she looks adorable the guests will be ...pleasantly pleased

If you're planning a wedding, you may be tempted to just buy a cute white dress for your flower girl, and have her carry a bouquet that matches yours. After all, she's just a kid, right? And if she looks adorable, the guests will be pleasantly pleased.

Well there's a bit more to it than that. Let's first take a quick look at the flower girl tradition.

Starting with the middle ages, flower girls were assigned a special job; to walk down the wedding aisle ahead of the bride and groom and spread grain (not flowers) in order to pave the way for a new beginnings, fertility and happiness in the marriage.

Today's flowers girls usually carry rose petals, and while they aren't believed to have special powers that will grant the new couple a harmonious relationship, they do tend to set the tone for a wedding.

Think about the last wedding you attended. If the flower girls came out in formal dark colored dresses, you quickly understood that the wedding would have a formal tone. On the other hand, if they came out in wispy flower girl dresses with roses laced into their hair, you knew that you would experience a more whimsical wedding.

In other words, the flower girls are generally the first part of the wedding party to walk down the isle, and because of that, they will make a strong first impression on your guests.

How will you dress your flower girls?

Here are some flower girl dress ideas for the most popular wedding themes around:

Cinderella Wedding Theme

If you are planning a Cinderella wedding theme, then extravagance and beauty should be a part of everything. And since your flower girls will be the first to appear, they need to set the tone boldly. For this theme, you should have more than one flower girl-three or four would be ideal-and then dress them spectacularly. Choose frilly white dresses with huge skirts and satin bows. You can tie in some of your wedding colors by adding fresh pale pink, yellow or blue flowers to their hair. In addition, they should wear satin ballerina slippers. Have them carry baskets decorated to match their dresses and throw tons of soft rose petals along the isle.

Beach Wedding Theme

Depending on the type of beach wedding that you want, you will have various choices with your flower girl dresses. If you want a romantic beach wedding, then put your flower girls in soft pastel tones or white, and use lots of fresh flowers-both in their hair and for them to throw. The flower girl wedding dresses can be shorter than in a formal wedding, and appropriate sandals would set the tone nicely. Instead of a basket, they could carry a pastel painted beach bucket filled to the rim with wildflowers to scatter along the isle.

If you have a stronger, more colorful beach wedding planned, why not have some fun with the flower girl dresses? Putting them in typical beach dresses to match your wedding décor would immediately let the wedding guests know that your wedding will be fun and adventurous.

Roaring 20's Wedding

Imagine a black and white wedding, wing tips shoes and ostrich feathers. That's the idea behind a roaring 20 wedding theme, and as you can imagine, a precious frilly flower girl dress simply won't fit the bill. With this type of gutsy wedding, you will have to get imaginative with them. Why not dress your flower girls in white satin flapper girl dresses, with bands around their hair and beads around the hemline? With this type of dress, you will certainly hear ooh and ahs from the crowd!

Garden Party Wedding

If you dream of an outdoor wedding surrounded by blooming flowers and ivy-laced arches, then your flower girl dresses should take on an entirely different style. White, off-white or pale pastel linen would be an ideal choice. In addition, a beautiful soft cotton dress with a muted flower pattern would be lovely, tied with a large solid satin bow in the back. Add lace up satin sandals and an armful of colorful tulips, and your guests won't be likely to forget your flower girls for some time to come.

As you can see, your flower girl dresses will set the mood of your entire event. Don't just automatically dress your flower girls in the typical dress, but instead get creative. What is the first thing you want your guest to see?

Use http://www.flowergirldressesjoy.com to quickly find flower girl dresses online including some great online bargains.

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All You Ever Wanted to Know About Wedding Officiants

Sand Key Park Wedding Clearwater FL

...hiring an officiant for your wedding is now standard procedure...

Tracking down a wedding officiant can be a little intimidating. Perhaps you remember a time when it was hard to get one if you weren't among the "regularly churched"! But times have changed, and hiring an officiant for your wedding is now standard procedure.

Basically, brides-to-be find themselves in one of two camps: Either they have a regular church and a favorite minister, who might be a longstanding family friend, or they need to find one through word-of-mouth or web sites.

The latter situation often costs more, but allows for a lot of flexibility. Depending on your tastes and faiths, you can often find a judge, a Catholic priest to marry you outdoors, a Rabbi to officiate at an interfaith wedding, a non-denominational officiant who encourages you to write your own vows, and so on.

How to find officiants

A good national directory for finding Catholic officiants is www.rentapriest.com.

If you're stuck for ideas, try asking vendors. Your florist or caterer is probably well acquainted with local options.

Another excellent way to find officiants is to visit a large wedding forum, like The Knot, and post on boards for your local geographic area. You can often get an idea of the flavor, preparedness, flexibility and even appearance of a popular local officiant.

When should you book an officiant?

Some officiants book early. If you're really particular about whom you want to do the service and can't budge on the date, try to book more than six months in advance. Some couples book a year ahead.

How much do officiants charge?

A minister at your own church may not charge anything at all, but may accept donations. In that case, a $100-200 donation is about average. Ask the minister yourself if there's any doubt.

An officiant you engage yourself will set his or her own rates. Rates generally range from $250-600, but some well-known officiants may charge more.

Do we send an invitation?

By custom, you invite your officiant to your rehearsal dinner as a guest. You also invite the officiant and his or her spouse to your reception with a formal invitation, just like other guests. Unless the officiant is an old family friend, he or she may decline to stay, but an invitation is proper. You aren't expected to invite the officiant's children.

Can you use a friend as an officiant?

It's done all the time, and can make weddings very personal. A father, mother, or the friend who introduced you can make for an amazing event. Be sure to pick someone comfortable speaking in front of large crowds, and brush up on your state's laws and licensing requirements. Here's a good site to begin your research:

www.northernway.org/marriagelaws.html

Your chosen friend or family member can become ordained "instantly and online" at the Universal Life Church, which in some areas will enable them to perform legal weddings. Again, be sure of your state's laws. Many times, ministers ordained by ULC will also have to register in their state and obtain a license before they can practice. Call your local county clerk for clarification.

Universal Life Church: www.ulc.org

Do I meet with the officiant before or after booking, and what should I expect at the meeting?

Ideally, an officiant will allow a "getting to know you" meeting before you book them, though not all will. Most at least offer telephone interviews, which helps you see how they fit with your personal style.

During your first meeting, the officiant will typically tell you about his or her background, discuss the logistics, bring up any premarital counseling requirements, ask some questions about your personal history, and show you a sample ceremony script. This is a good time to discuss special unification ceremonies or personal vows, bring up interfaith issues, and learn whether your officiant plans to attend your rehearsal.

About the Author

Blake Kritzberg is editor at "FavorIdeas.com." Stop by for a huge selection of wedding favors, Bridezilla's weekly adventures, and free resources for brides: save-the-date eCards, screensaver, wallpaper and web site templates.
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Rockland: Maine's BestKept Secret for A Wedding Destination

Bonnie Farmer Photography Camden Maine

I n 2004’ Rockland Maine celebrated its 150th anniversary, yet very few in the past would have ever considered it to be a place for a vacation, let alone a romantic getaway experience or wedding destination.





Perhaps, this is a draw back to the time when visitors would experience the unpleasant whiffs emanating from the SeaPro fish-rendering plant. In fact, it was not uncommon to hear the jingle: “Camden by the Sea, Rockland by the Smell.”

All has now changed in Rockland as SeaPro, along with the town’s two sardine-packing and other fish processing plants, have departed along with their odors. There is now a handsome harbor- front with a walking trail extending over four-miles connecting several points of interest as Snow Marine Park, Harbor Park, where the annual Maine Lobster Festival is held, Rockland Fish Pier, Coast Guard Pier, Maine State Ferry Service Terminal, North End wharves, Marie H. Reed Memorial Park and the Rockland Breakwater Lighthouse.

The latter two are often venues for some spectacular wedding ceremonies.

It is also home to The Historic Inns Of Rockland, a consortium of six independently owned inns that are dedicated to historical preservation, as well as providing their guests with a memorable experience within a locale that has reinvented itself as a mecca for the arts and outdoor activities.

In addition, three of these inns, LimeRock Inn, Berry Manor Inn and Captain Lindsey House have created a sub-consortium that inter-change and leverage their facilities offering a combined wedding venue that take full advantage of their unique attributes.

As all are in walking distance of one another, you can avail yourself of anyone of them for the rehearsal dinner, afternoon bridesmaid’s tea, wedding reception, and any other functions.

The gorgeous outdoor gardens of The LimeRock Inn make it an ideal choice to exchange vows providing plenty of space to move around.

The stately Berry Manor Inn with its drawing room, spacious parlor, dining room, and grand stairway, all presenting a Victorian flair, make this inn a most attractive wedding venue.

You can even engage the services of Captain Ken Barnes to perform the wedding ceremony. He and his wife Ellen are owners of the Captain Lindsey House. The intimacy of the Captain Lindsey House, that incidentally resembles a European style hotel, along with the Barnes’ wonderful collection of décor, relics, and authentic antiques acquired during their many years of travel, will surely provide the wedding guests with some interesting topics for animated conversation.

The combined number of rooms of these three inns is twenty- nine, and if you add the other three inns, Old Granite Inn, Waterman House & Gardens, and the Lakeshore Inn, you have a total of forty- four rooms to call upon. All total with roll-aways and cots you could conceivably accommodate about one hundred guests.

What is also noteworthy is that all, with the exception of the Lakeshore Inn, are in walking distance of one another. It should be mentioned that the latter is within an easy ten- minute drive from the others.

What is also interesting about these inns is their close proximity to many outdoor venues where wedding ceremonies can be celebrated. Here is a sampling:

· As mentioned above, the Marie H. Reed Memorial Park and the Rockland Breakwater Lighthouse, is a very popular wedding venue offering spectacular panoramic ocean views of mountains, islands, Penobscot Bay, as well as schooners, island ferries, fishing boats depart and enter the harbor. There is also a small sandy beach leading to the historic Rockland Breakwater Lighthouse.

· Mt Battie located in Camden Hills State Park offers spectacular views of Camden, Penobscot Bay, and surrounding islands. During the autumn the foliage is breathtaking. If you are in the mood to add a little poetry to your ceremony, it should be pointed out that the famous poet and playwright, Edna St. Vincent Millay, who was born in Rockland, was inspired by the view from the summit of Mt. Battie when she wrote her poem “Renascence” which opens "All I could see from where I stood / Was three long mountains and a wood; / I turned and looked the other way, / And saw three islands in a bay."

· One of the most popular venues is the non-denominational Vesper Hill Children’s Chapel, set atop a rock ledge overlooking unbelievable lush gardens. The chapel can seat fifty, however, there are other spots nearby where you can exchange vows that will accommodate a larger party.

· Don’t forget to check out the Merryspring Horticultural Nature Park with its herb and rose garden, the Perennial Border, and the Birds and Bees/Winter Color Garden. In late summer, the 250-foot long annual border is the star of the show, with some flowers blooming well into October.

· Last but not least are the many lighthouses that attract couples from all over the globe. There is the Rockland Breakwater Lighthouse, the Owls Head Lighthouse and the Marshall Point Lighthouse

In order to reach these various venues and at the same time keep the wedding party together, many couples rent a trolley from the All Aboard Trolley Company.

In addition, the trolley provides you with the added feature of having some great photo opportunities.

No doubt, with all of these resources available and a little imagination, weddings in Rockland Maine can easily compete with the best of them at any other destination. One last important mention, in most instances it is necessary to contact the officials of your chosen venue in order to arrange a date and time for the celebration of your wedding.

A UNIQUE GIFT

If you are looking for that special gift for the bride, mother and daughter getaway, mother-in-law, or wedding attendants, the Lakeshore Inn, a member of the Historic Inns of Rockland, offers a reasonably priced Ladies Only Spa Weekend during the months of Mid-October through June. From their arrival on Friday evening until they depart on Sunday, groups of 4 to eight ladies experience a wonderful line up of mind and body presentations with learning sessions with spa treatments that include facial, massage, manicure, pedicure and paraffin wax treatments. In addition, owner Pam Masson serves mouth-watering gourmet meals.

ADDITIONAL INFORMATION

A great place to pick up some excellent wines produced in Maine is Cellardoor Winery & Vineyards located in nearby Lincolnville.

For delicious sandwiches, soups, breads and pastries check out Atlantic Baking Co. You won’t be disappointed.

Norm and Lily Goldman are a unique husband and wife team, writer and water colorist, who write and paint about romantic destinations.

Basically, they meld art and words to create an unusual travel story, which generates interest, particularly because of the fact that each painting appears to have been ‘custom made’ for the story – original story and original art.

You can view all of their articles and art work on sketchandtravel.com.
Norm and Lily have collaborated with several Convention Bureaus and Public Relations Companies visiting many romantic travel destinations, resorts and inns throughout the New England States and Florida.

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The Pros & Cons of Beach Weddings

Clearwater Beach Hilton Resort FL

...A beach wedding can be much cheaper than a traditional wedding

Beach weddings are popular but they do present "special
issues". Failing to consider these ahead of time could leave you unpleasantly surprised on your wedding day!



There is certainly nothing that should dissuade you from
your vision of a beautiful seaside ceremony. As a matter of
fact, there are many benefits. Just know the issues and plan for them. Your wedding day will be a wonderful and joyous event!

The "Pros"

* A beach wedding can be much cheaper than a traditional
wedding. Who in this day and age can't afford to save money?
It is said that the average budget for a wedding these days
is between $20,000 to $30,000! That is an enormous and
unnecessary financial burden to be faced with!

Don't start off married life enslaved by your wedding day
debts. If you have that kind of money to spend, fine, but if
not, don't go there! Be practical and remember, the day is
what you, your loved ones and your friends make of it...not
how much you spent on it!

* A beach wedding can be a casual affair. It allows everyone
to relax. Your guests can dress comfortably and affordably.
Often brides-to-be are unaware of the financial strain they
place on their wedding attendants and guests. Not everyone
can afford to buy that wedding outfit.

* The wedding ceremony and reception can all be held right
there on the beach. No need to travel to different
locations. This is very convenient for everyone. Hey, even
the kids can have fun at a beach wedding!

* A beach wedding allows you to involve everyone in the
activities. Guests are not restricted to sitting quietly in
their seats. They can actually be a part of the celebration!


* Beach weddings don't always require a permit. If you are
having a small ceremony and do not require a section of the
beach to be blocked off...just do it! Simple yet lovely!

* A beach wedding is a modern and refreshing change from the
"stodgy" traditional wedding. It allows your creativity and
personality to shine through.

* There is no "right" or "wrong way" to plan a beach front
wedding. It can be large, small, romantic, whimsical or even
downright goofy! You can pay big bucks and hire everything
out, or, you can be cheap and make everything yourself. The
choice is completely yours!

The "Cons"

* The most important thing to remember when planning a beach
wedding is that "Mother Nature" rules! Depending on her
mood, she can brighten your day or rain on your parade! When
planning your celebration, be sure to plan an "alternate
location" should the old girl be cranky that day!

* The beach is usually a bit breezy so take that into
consideration when picking your location. Try to choose a
"cove" on the beach that is protected from direct winds.

* Be sure to check with local authorities regarding any
permits needed to use the beach. This should only be
necessary if you are having a large gathering and you want
to block off a portion of the beach exclusively for you and
your guests. Ask to be sure though.

* Check on the "Beach Rules". Ask questions. Can you have
candles on the beach? Can you play music into the night? How
late can you stay? Is there an area nearby for open fires
should you choose to barbeque?

* Speaking of food...don't forget about the seagulls! They
are notorious beggars and thieves. You can expect them to
attend your beach wedding, uninvited! As long as you keep
food covered and don't feed them, they will stay on the
sidelines.

* Remember the tides. You definitely do not want to be
surprised by the quick and unanticipated arrival of high
tide!

* On the beach, there will be bugs and sunshine! Make sure
you consider the comfort of your guests. Bring sunscreen and
insect repellant for those who did not remember to bring
their own.

* Chairs may sink in the sand if you do not rent flooring to
place under them. However, if you are planning a "beach
blanket" reception, you will not need chairs. Remember your
elderly guests though. Plan for their safety and comfort.
You will need to provide them with chairs and beach
umbrellas to protect them from the elements.

Beach weddings are absolutely beautiful but nature does
provide an element of uncertainty. Careful planning on your
part will eliminate most of them. Just remember...

If every hair is not in place due to the ocean breezes or a
seagull drops off his "wedding gift" a little to close to
the punch bowl...

These are not flaws or imperfections in your day. They are
"memories"! Cherish them and have fun!

About the Author

Cindy English is the publisher of Beach-Wedding-Themes.com
where you will find ideas for beach wedding themes full of
fun, fantasy and romance. Discover new places to shop and
things to make at: www.beach-wedding-themes.com

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